As I am watching people lose friendships over the election a couple things strike me.

First, that person whom you trust to watch your house when you’re out of town or to keep an eye on your kids or pet sit your dog or you enjoy having a laugh with around a fire pit, is still that person even if they voted differently from you.

Second, loving your neighbor is easy when you think you’re in agreement on everything. Real love shows itself in the midst of conflict.

Finally, muting or unfollowing is not breaking off a friendship or relationship. Social media is not real life.